Friday, July 15, 2011

CHICAGO!

What an interesting time in our newly wed life! We get married in the southern sweet city of Charleston, SC then less than two weeks later unpack clothes from the honeymoon and Clemson in our quaint one-bedroom apartment outside of Chicago, IL. An adventure to say the least.

Neither of us have a childhood surrounded by a busy city life. Philip, loving to run wild on the hundreds of acres his parents built their home on for his sisters and him to have a childhood with plenty to do outside, horses and for Philip, hunting. Philip loved not having a neighbor in site. Despite the fact that Carla was surrounded by both Washington DC and Baltimore her childhood was spent soaking up the coastal Navy love of Annapolis. Cobblestone streets, lacrosse fields, stickers and players everywhere, she was raised in the neighborhood charm of a casual-preppy, leisurely city.

While we still do not live in the grand city of Chicago, we have about a 30 minute drive into what you would call the hussle-and-bussle of city life. False, people are always on the move here, even here in the "suburbs"! If you get in your car, you better know where your gas pedal is and how quickly your vehicle can get off of 0-MPH. There are speed limit signs, but sometimes you have to just "Go" or else you are the traffic jam! So in other words, if you are new and lost you better build up some confidence and get your "smart phone" ready to navigate!

Something so small but noticeable has been in comparison to the South, you do not see the same amount of smiles. It has almost become entertaining because the people are quite nice and friendly, much more than NYC. However, I think the ridiculous winter has something to do with the lack of smiling.

The Summer weather has its variety. We can go from a thunderstorm that looks like a coastal hurricane knocking down power lines and trees in every yard to 96 degrees with horrid humidity to 76 with a light cool breeze. Oh, and "Windy City" - it is windy! Car alarms go off - so it is not just about the politicians, it really is windy!

We have been downtown twice at this point. We have soaked up the tourist opportunities with an hour boat tour, which was wonderful, and if you are to ever visit, spend the money and enjoy!! That same day we visited the Navy Pier, Lakeshore Drive, the original Chicago deep dish pizza for lunch, the miles of beach/lake front along gigantic Lake Michigan, then the Lincoln Park Zoo - 11 miles of walking.

Cityscape Getting Ready to Board the Boat


 Our second day in the city was a bit less ambitious. We found ourselves on the Skydeck of the Sears (Willis) Tower overlooking the entire city and Lake Michigan. We enjoyed the walk back on Michigan Ave (great shopping) with a stop in Grant and Millennium Park. We are enjoying these months of being newly weds and tourists! We have been blessed with adventurous hearts, safety and fun. We know there is still so much to see, do and learn, but for now - this is Chicago for us!

Originally the Sears Tower, today the Willis Tower

On the Skydeck of the Willis Tower


Skydeck on the Willis Tower, Floor 103


The low and huge building on the right was a Post Office but was used in "The Dark Knight" movie as the Gotham City Bank - from the boat tour you can see it up-close!

Millennium Park




Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Our Wedding Day


June 4, 2011
Charleston, South Carolina
The Daniel Island Club


Photography by The Mondays Photography / Wild Dunes Resort Beach Homes / Venue The Daniel Island Club / Flowers by Sara York Grimshaw Design, Charleston / Music from Austin Booth / Bridal Gown, Veil & Bow from Mary's Bridal in Annapolis, MD / Bridesmaids in Alfred Sung (midnight silk dupioni) from Bella Bridesmaids, Greenville / Groomsman in Jos. A. Banks (light olive summer suit) / Officiant Rev. Jim Stafford / Family tree & truck art by Gracie Smith / Makeup by Jennifer Cox (now-sister-in-law of bride) / Hair by Rachel Fastenau (regular hair dresser and now-cousin-in-law of bride)
Wedding Day 06.04.11
 To view the photos individually, please click on the album above to be redirected to the Google Picasa Web gallery.


Wedding Day Soundtrack

Music has a way of taking over you, whether you like it to or not. From movie soundtracks to the perfect song "exactly" when you need to hear it!

Music can easily create an environment - which is why when we selected music for our Wedding Day we wanted to make sure each song could add to the impact and moment at which it would make its imprint to heighten emotions, to focus on a prayer, to enjoy a dance, to interact with your body so you can dance the night away or to just sing-a-long.

Our Wedding day guitarist, talented musician friend and DJ, Austin Booth from the Greenville, SC area, connected to the music perfectly to help make our day come together for everyone that could hear it!






You can listen to the music from the Ceremony and part of the Reception from the play list below. Enjoy.

Prelude - "For the Beauty of the Earth" Jon Schmidt
Processional - "Love Story Meets Viva la Vida" Jon Schmidt
The Cord of Three Strands - (background music) "Lead Me to the Cross" Hillsong United
Recessional - "How Sweet It Is" Michael Buble
Philip & Carla entrance - "Ladies Love Country Boys" Trace Adkins
First Dance - "God Gave Me You" Dave Barnes
Father & Daughter Dance (not below) - "Cinderella" Steven Curtis Chapman
Mother & Son Dance - "My Wish" Rascal Flatts
Dinner Background
"Beach Song" Hans Zimmerman
"Can't Help Falling in Love" Jon Schmidt
"Don't Worry Baby" The Beach Boys
... and much more awesome music from our DJ for the rest of the dinner and DANCING all night!!



Hope you enjoy! Grooveshark is also a really great way to listen to music online for free that you specifically like (you can easily "sign-in" with your google email account or your facebook account).




Friday, July 8, 2011

From 1987 to 2011...

Our Wedding Slide Show to share our growth. Both babies in 1987 to the wedding in 2011!
What wonderful, loving and supportive family and friends we have both had through the years and have today!
Enjoy.


Thursday, July 7, 2011

God Gave Me You

Our church, NewSpring, first introduced us to Dave Barnes. While we had heard some of his songs on the christian radio station as background music in the car, we both fell in love with one in particular when NewSpring opened up a Sunday service with "God Gave Me You" during a marriage series.

The chorus caught us initially, repeatedly saying "God Gave Me You," which is a phrase we would casually say reminding each other of how blessed we equally felt to be in our relationship. When we met and became friends in August of 2008, neither of us had intentions of anything more than friendship.
Philip, a good ol' Southern boy who loves the South, his truck, hunting, wakeboarding, finishing his degree in Construction Science & Management and has a passion for the work of his father. Then there is Carla, a mid-Atlantic coastal girl who was ready to finish her senior year of rowing, her degree and thesis and return to California or Annapolis for career, career, career.

Needless to say, the friendship became great, the great friendship became an awesome relationship and the awesome relationship built a foundation for a blessed marriage ahead. We are so far from perfect, but so comforted by a perfect God - making this our perfect love song. We chose each other for the ups and downs, days of doubt and losing our way. We know that separate, we are only "half of what" we could be. We chose ropes/knots for our unity during the ceremony (and for decoration) to only add to the fact that "we are stitched together, and what love has tethered." 



"God Gave Me You" has such strong lyrics if you choose to involve Him in your relationship. While, it is a beautiful song even if you do not have a relationship - for us it is a powerful definition. Therefore, this being our First Dance was a perfect way for us to seal our ceremony and start the adventure of being married!

It was a faster love song to dance to, compared to most, but we will always groove a bit more if it means that we selected something that has significance for who we are as a couple.

Dave Barnes is an awesome artist and even country singer Blake Shelton found himself enamored by "God Gave Me You" when flipping through radio stations - which is why he recorded it and the song will be released July 12th on his new album! Already heard a snippet - and it sounds good with that deep country voice. 
Till then, Dave Barnes for our memories, "God Gave Me You" for our hearts and excited that we have each other for any ups and downs!






Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Said "I Do" ...

It's official! We've been married for just over 1 month!
This first month has been such an awesome adventure! From "I do" in Charleston, to our Honeymoon on the island of Kaua'i in Hawaii, back to South Carolina to pack some boxes and bags, to our final destination of Chicago, Illinois. We are learning the lifestyle of this town vs. the sweet comfort in the upstate of South Carolina.

What a wonderful time to fully embrace this introduction to marriage. A time to welcome this blessing of a married life. A time to focus on our new union where we are constantly reinforcing our foundation
"Though one may be overpowered, the two can defend themselves. 
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."
Ecclesiastes 4:12
We have a world of adventure ahead of us in this marriage and know where our strength comes from in every moment.

We'll be back!